Think, Pause & Talk

There are two kinds of peoples we generally face in every walk of life

1] who talks negative and excessive and

2] who talks whenever required or talks right and right time.

But in reality we get attracted towards person who talks negative and excessive, it gives us fun and tax-free entertainment and we get fascinated and influenced by such activities..... is it good or bad..... the must know and must read facts are as follows... only then you can understand good n bad.

1] They have no relation with the facts, action and event of related topic cause they want to hide reality truth and behavior.

2] They never appreciate any one but to demoralize others in their own way

3] These persons hate others - their requests, commands, advice and suggestions.

4] Making others insult and inferior is one of the special trait they have.

5] They want to show smartness and impressiveness via negative and excessive talking.

6] These persons always want to hold, borrow and fetch credit even if they haven't done anything.

7] They shows whatever they says and feel is only truth hence they always has false satisfaction

8] Actually they are Hyperbole,Hypercritical,hypocrite persons and are master in hypocrisy

9] Generally they are suffered by inferiority complex in which, because of reaction and compensatory attitude to their feeling of inferiority and also feels insecure hence the develop the sense of extreme superiority to hide inferiority and try to overcome others by talking excessively and negatively.

10] Those kind of people always like to make fun of people.

11] These peoples has no genuine feeling that's why they all of the above things.

Now the dangerous result of such traits are as follows.

1] Persons having habit of talking negative and excessive will always have permanent mark on person's personality and it will not deteriorated and it may be inherited to the next generation.

2] These peoples make negative mark on individual & society hence they won't be respected.

3] It is a biggest punishment for them that they can't be believed even if they are talking truth.

4] Such talkers will not game any value in society when the reality is exposed

5] Relations are always in the problems.

So kindly avoided and don't entertain such peoples and if you have developed such habit recently or earlier those days then consider that you have only one and last chance to save and change yourself else you will be facing problems tomorrow. At the end I want to give a tip that is:- If you don't know how, why & what to speak it is always better to keep quite and keep doing work because it results in progress, it is demonstrative, it builds your confidence--experience--skill and makes you perfect. It also make other to trust in & confident on you & gives respect to you

About The Author

Name : NIlesh B Gore

Profession : Graphologist(Hndwriting Analyst) & SW. Eng.

Email : ng411002@rediffmail.com

Web : http://www.brendynamics.com/hw.htm

Country : India, Ms

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